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Dear Zita,
That teacher has taught me for one year when I was a freshman. He was popular with most girls. We chatted after class sometimes because I always got problems, his words were warm and kind. He cared me and my feeling more than a teacher should. I was happy mixed with a little scaring. |
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Now, he doesn't teach me anymore, but we still can meet on the campus sometimes, and we have email contact. It's known by one dormate. I don't know whether he is married, but I was upset when once I saw him played with a kid. We seldom have body touch and no appointment till now. Will you tell me what he is thinking now? And shall I send email to him actively anymore? Yours sincerely
Ann Dear Ann︰ 遇上這種自己芳心暗許的情況，最佳辦法就是告訴自己︰「如果他有意，他就會追求，要不然，他只當我是朋友。」 女人，要學習放輕鬆，與及不去想一名並不屬於自己的男人。還有，學習以平常心對待自己喜歡的人，把所有心儀的人只視為朋友，又或是偶像。 只有當女人肯放下忐忑的心，女人才不會被自己的暗戀而折磨。何苦呢？ |
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