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Hi Zita,
I have a question. Hope you
can help me.
I have some feeling towards my friend. We usually having dinner and
also send message to each other. He knows my other friends but he only
go out with me. I didn't take any action to let him know my feeling.
He
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sometimes ask me to go out with
his friends. His family even laughs at us. May be they think we are
couple.
In my stage, I think my career is most important because I am still
twenty something. I pay much effort on it. I want to learn more to upgrade
myself. Besides my career, I am studying my master degree that I don't
want to pay too much attention on love affair. Sometimes worry is worthless.
Also, we are both independent people. He is active and mature. I may
not the only one he always meets I think. I don't want to ask him for
anything. Just let things flow.
I tell myself everything depends on "yuen fan". Of course
I want we are developing our relationship. But I can't prevent if he
fall in love with other girls. What do you think? Thank you so much!
Elva
Dear Elva︰
我相信任何人都有權攪清楚一段曖昧的關係，與其辛苦，不如一清二楚。
你可以告訴他︰「別人都說我是你女朋友呢！」看看他的反應。然後再問︰「其實我們究竟點？」
他說是朋友，你就死心，以後繼續做朋友。他說可以發展，就步入另一階段。
不過，如果你夠膽，你可以在甚麼也不問之前，嘗試運用一點美色，即是說，和他出街時，穿得性感一點，看看他會否有衝動把你變做女朋友。
男人心中的愛意，很多時是由慾念燃起的。自古女人都擅長這方法，且看你又如何。
深雪覆
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