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Dear
Zita,

Herewith my story with a very
special friend who has his family (his wife & 2 children) but he
treated me as his girlfriend. We kept this relationship over 6 months
but he never talk to anyone I'm his girl friend (actually I don't mind
cause I love him). We met each other during mid night only & I can't
share the holidays with him every weekend. Anyway, he cares

about me & he's my driver
when I need him. The only thing is I cannot call him except he calls
me every time.

I just wonder is he loves me too? He is quite selfish sometimes. I know
there isn't any result for the future. I try to quit this game but how
I can let him know? I hope we can become friends again. Zita, please
advise!


Coffee


 



Dear Coffee︰

我想,如果你肯下決心,你就能自由。他又沒有纏住你,對嗎?

做人第三者,情況就是這樣了,你還可以怎樣?

只要你告訴他你的痛苦,他是會讓你走的,他有子女,無理由離婚又或是給你名份。你肯走,我懷疑他會高興。

深雪覆