I was 32 and naturally, my attention was drawn toward my career. I put everything
behind and concentrated on my work. I was even confident with myself. With help, I run a small business.
One day I met a young lady who is a piano teacher. She is beautiful and very elegant. I must admit that I was drawn by her gorgeous appearance at first. I knew she had a boy friend. However, things started to change. She appeared more often than I expected and I could sense the subtle signals. To tell the truth, I am really a beginner at handling relationships and especially with H.K. girls.
I had a weird feeling that something was not right. One day I introduced myself. I have never met any woman who made me so nervious (nervous), my heart pounded like a drum with deafening noise. I became really nervous. I asked her out, but she declined.
Three months after that, she was back with her boy friend again. That weird feeling reminded me that I was trying to steal a girl from someone else. My mind was filled with despair and questions without answer. Still, if I had a chance I would thank her because I can understand a little bit more about myself and my weaknesses.
Two years passed, I met another girl. She isn't as young and not the least beautiful. However, she is more out-going and she is the kind of girl who would greet you in the morning with kindness. I have found her more and more attractive day after day. I felt very relax and open despite of the pressure from work whenever I meet her.
There is just one tiny little problem: she doesn't seems to be available. I really don't want to miss this opportunity since finding someone with that kind of quality is remote to a man of 40.
Please give me some advice: I really have no-one to turn to.
首先，你要知道她的喜好、理想、喜歡的男性類型，然後進攻她。先取她的 email 吧，在網上談談心，大家投契的話，要有下一步就容易。