I've read a lot
of your articles at she.com and I really like them. First time writing
to ask for opinion about love so I hope you can help me with my problem.
I'm 25 and have a boyfriend (also 25) and we've
been together for a few years.
We have a stable relationship
but sometimes I still feel like I don't really understand him. There
are some little things that I don't like about him and they accumulate
but he's a perfect guy for me otherwise.
met a guy younger than me recently (he's 22). I've known him for a few
years but it's only several months ago that we became more familiar
with each other. He's become my good friend since I always talk to him
when I have problems with my boyfriend and he's a great listener. But
two months ago he told me that he likes me and wonders if I'm willing
to try out with him. I was really confused. I feel like I've devoted
for my boyfriend for so long so I want to do something to rescue my
current relationship before I try something else. After I told him what
I think, he said we should keep our distance.
However, I was really
selfish and I couldn't hold myself from calling him. And I keep thinking
of him everyday. And my relationship with my boyfriend became better
recently. Now I'm really confused. I feel like I'm liking two guys at
the same time. To be honest with you before I thought I'd never like
a guy who's younger than me because I don't feel enough security. I
thought he's just a really good male friend of mine. But this time I
think I may have started liking this younger guy since he's a lot more
mature than me. And he already said he doesn't care about my age. I
really don't know.
Zita, can you give me some opinion on this? It's really bothering me
a lot... I really appreciate your help! Look forward to your reply.