I have written to you before
and I really appreciate your views towards love affairs. I hope you
can once again guide me through your brilliant idea. It is like this:
I know my good friend and I currently like the same girl. I think he
knows the same too but neither of us disagrees on it. I am thinking
of 2 possible situations here:
1. I will not do anything and let the girl chooses...if that's the case,
then I'm afraid I'll lose to him as I'll regret myself for not doing
anything at all.
2. I tell my friend I like her and see what's his reaction. If he gives
up on her, then maybe it's the best idea. But I might lose him as a
3. I tell my friend I like her, but the girl might choose neither of
us cos she is afraid that we might hurt our friendship towards each
other as 3 of us are originally good friends.
So, now, I'm confused. I dunno what should I do. I wanna have both (love
and friendship), but I know maybe life is not possible to have it. If
so, what might be the best thing to do in this situation? Can you give
me any advice on this?