Feeling towards friend – 覆Elva

Hi Zita,

I have a question. Hope you
can help me.

I have some feeling towards my friend. We usually having dinner and
also send message to each other. He knows my other friends but he only
go out with me. I didn't take any action to let him know my feeling.
He

sometimes ask me to go out with
his friends. His family even laughs at us. May be they think we are
couple.

In my stage, I think my career is most important because I am still
twenty something. I pay much effort on it. I want to learn more to upgrade
myself. Besides my career, I am studying my master degree that I don't
want to pay too much attention on love affair. Sometimes worry is worthless.
Also, we are both independent people. He is active and mature. I may
not the only one he always meets I think. I don't want to ask him for
anything. Just let things flow.

I tell myself everything depends on "yuen fan". Of course
I want we are developing our relationship. But I can't prevent if he
fall in love with other girls. What do you think? Thank you so much!


Elva




Dear Elva︰

我相信任何人都有權攪清楚一段曖昧的關係,與其辛苦,不如一清二楚。

你可以告訴他︰「別人都說我是你女朋友呢!」看看他的反應。然後再問︰「其實我們究竟點?」

他說是朋友,你就死心,以後繼續做朋友。他說可以發展,就步入另一階段。

不過,如果你夠膽,你可以在甚麼也不問之前,嘗試運用一點美色,即是說,和他出街時,穿得性感一點,看看他會否有衝動把你變做女朋友。

男人心中的愛意,很多時是由慾念燃起的。自古女人都擅長這方法,且看你又如何。

深雪覆

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