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Dearest Zita,
I love to read your reply is
very meaningful, but anyway I don't waste your time.
I am 23 year old now, I was back from Canada last summer and I was broke
up with my 8 years boyfriend due to the long-distance, he is not mature,
no feeling, family problems
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etc...(This is my first love,
so I am lack of love experience.)
But within this year (after we have break up) I can't find and even
meet a guy which will treat me serious in HK. Is it the culture different?
The guys in Canada are more true, loyal and down to earth. I have no
idea why most of the guys in HK love to play game. OR is 緣份 hasn't come
yet during my case?
I also want to ask I have met a lot of guys within this year. (about
10 guys they all are having different age and academic background, some
also professional.) But I find myself don't know how differentiate the
guy is true love or playing game. Moreover, I don't know how to choose
a guy. I know that I need a mature, reliable, a good guy, but may be
due to my career I can't meet a guy like such. Is it just trust timing
and 緣份, and take it easy? Please teach me how to feel and test a true
guy? (Is it just choose the one that love me more than I do? But ironically
speaking is difficult to love a person which he loves me but I don't
really loves him.)
Your audience always,
Leng Leng
Dear Leng Leng︰
要遇上認真而誠懇的好男仔，如你所言，是綠份和timing，另外，你的態度也很重要。
如果，你表現輕浮，吸引到的自然是賤男人。
要測試男人是否認真，第一，你要告訴他，你的擇偶條件最重視誠意，男人一定要有誠意，要不然，你一定不會考慮。
如果他聽完你的偉論後也追求你，他便是有誠意。
第二，不要與男人發生性關係，這一點才最重要，你不肯給他，他還繼續約你，他就是真心喜歡你。
而你要記住，以上兩點，你皆不可讓步。你一退讓，測試結果就不成立。
深雪覆
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