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Dear Zita,
I really enjoy your column
and the advice given are both very good and very sensible. Now I would
like to ask for you help with my problem.
I have been friends with a guy for over 1 year and we are quite close
in our friendship. He is very nice to me and usually talk on the phone
ever couple
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of days. He has expressed interest
in me before but I rejected him once already.
But as time goes by, I have grown to love him. He has been my best friend
and confidante. I have told him a little while ago that I do like him
and always have but he was silent over this issue and we have never
discussed it either. We continue as before and pretend it did not happen.
One of the reason why I rejected him before was because I will leaving
HK to continue my studies in the United States within that year and
do not believe in long distance relationships.
This has not changed but my plans were postponed one year and I will
be leaving this September for the United States. I feel like I have
wasted all this time and I have regretted my decision to reject him.
What I am asking is what should I do? Should I give up and pretend I
have said nothing? Or should I ask him directly what he thinks? However,
I will not be back in HK permanently for at least 2 to 3 years time.
Your's Truly,
PC
Dear PC︰
其實感情能否生存，有時候很難由肉眼斷定，你以為因為分隔兩地因此無可能繼續，但說不定愛意更濃呢？
還有，在你臨走之前的這半年拍拍拖也不是壞主意，無人說每次一拍拖就要天長地久永不分離。
或許，他也只想與你有一個開心的回憶。
與他商量吧！人生，難得開心，也難得浪漫。
深雪覆
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