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Hi Zita,
I have read many of your writings
and I found that you have a very special point of view. I hope that
you can solve some of my problems.
I am a 32 years old woman without any love experience. Although I have
several men chase after
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me on and off in these years,
I have not choose any of them. I tend to "like" people easily
but not dare to initial or say anything; cause I am too shy. Unfortunately,
all of those I "like" is not the chaser. Frankly I am very
afraid of having any relationship with a men whom I do not have feelings
to.
Zita, I know that this is a very serious problem to me but what should
I do to solve it? I am already 32 years old! Thank you.
Kero
Dear Kero︰
你不太喜歡他也可以拍拍拖呀。無人叫你一拍拖就玩認真嘛!況且,為何你不嘗試練習一下?愛情從來不是空想,也不是小說與電影情節,愛情是生活化的事。
而我又認為,你的單戀,通常只是幻覺一場,你愛上的人,在與你日夕相處後,往往只是不外如是。
你再有被人追的機會的話,千萬不要錯過。
深雪覆
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