突然消失 – 覆Mary

He gave me gifts after his vacation trip, and gave me X'mas gift. Of
course, I have returned birthday and X'mas gifts to him. On X'mas and
New year this year, he invited me to his family gathering. At that time,
I know his brothers and mother. I have a great time with him and his
family.

The last time we have together with him was in his New Year family gathering,
after that day, his disappeared, I have called him once, but he did
not return my call, up to today, we have not contact with each other
for around two months. I know he is fine but don't want to see me.

I have the following questions:

Did he treat me as his girl friend even he did not say anything?

I don't know why he disappear without tell me a word, what should I
do?

Should I keep waiting for his return?

Dear Mary︰

當男人一到達一個他認為要認真的階段時，他便會退縮。

倘若他覺得你百分百合意，他與你都能安然渡過，然後正式成為對方的另一半。

這次的遭遇，明顯是他正處於一個考慮之中，又或是，他已經否定了你。

他不覆機，你由得他，你已經致電了他數次，你已盡了尋找真相的責任。

暫時，請你忘記他。到一天他肯定了他的心中所想，他會找你。

深雪覆