I wrote you a letter about
2 months ago and it's about my boyfriend who started seeing his ex when
he was dating me. You told me that "他與那名三十六歲的前度女友一定會散，你大可放心。我看，只要你不迫他，他反而會乖乖聽你話和珍惜你。"
I followed your words and didn't force
to dump her. He finally dumped her and said he treasures our relationship
and only loves me.
But he admitted that he had sex with her when they're back together. Although
this is within my expectation, I was very upset when it came out from
his mouth. He even told me his sex drive for me is not that much sometimes.
He said "I don't know why it's like this. Can we find a solution?"
I know maybe the "freshness" has gone but he did have sex with
his ex when they're back together, and he said he doesn't love her but
only cares about her. She is supposed to be less "fresh" than
me right? He said he loves me but doesn't wanna make love to me. How come?
Zita, I'm real frustrated. I can always picture the 2 of them having sex.
It's easy to forgive but hard to forget. Maybe sometimes it's better not
to know too much right? I hope you can give me some advices again.