再信任他 – 覆Baby

Dear
Zita,

Hi! I know sometimes the questions
we ask are very alike but I hope you won't find us troublesome... We
really need your advice!

I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 22. We have been dating for a year and I
found out that he has been together

with his ex again for 7 months.
She is 36 & they broke up because of me. He says he doesn't love
her at all, but she helped him a lot before for his financial problems
& she's really upset after they broke up & was once hospitalized
because refused to eat. So he just wants to make her feel better &
he knows they won't have a future.

I know that this woman knows about me but it seems that she doesn't
care much. Maybe she really can share her boyfriend with someone. But
I can't. We broke up 2 months ago and told him to leave her or else
I won't be his girlfriend again. He still hasn't dumped her yet &
said he wants to wait for the sum of money he'll get next month, &
give it to her when dumping her. This will make himself less guilty
& he asked me to wait for him. I don't know how to trust him again
because he lied a lot before.

I know I can't give him too much pressure but the whole thing is killing
me. I've tried to date other guys but just can't get over him. Can you
give me some advice? Thanks a lot Zita.

Best,


Baby



Dear Baby︰

很多愛情都是十分令人傷心的。而你這一段已經不算太差,起碼你的男朋友肯面對這件事,而且答應你去解決。

我認為他與那名三十六歲的前度女友一定會散,你大可放心。只是,你也要表現成熟,你要明白,她雖然年紀大一點,但一定有很多優點的,是你拍馬也追不上的那些。而我亦相信,你的男朋友曾與她一起,其實是出於愛意。

你成熟、懂事,他自然會明白,你是集所有女人的優點於一身。

我看,只要你不迫他,他反而會乖乖聽你話和珍惜你。

深雪覆

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