Misunderstanding feeling with my friend – 覆Elva

Dear
Zita,

I've got a problem, hope you
can help me!

I developed a piece of relationship with my best male friend for several
months. He has a girlfriend but he always tells me that they are going
to break up and unwilling to show up with her. We meet and talk to each
other everyday. And we had sex relation recently. He still treats me

very good but doesn't mentioned
about our relation. I'd asked him, he just said sorry to me and hope
me treat him as my very best friend.

He told me I'd known he has a girl friend that he can't do anything
at all. In my opinion, I think he always escape from that girl means
he's doing something to break up with her. He always meets me means
he love to see me and love to stay with me. But after he told me what
he think, my heart is broken and I feel pain. How come he can had that
relation with me? I don't care if he played one night stand. But we
are friends, a pair of very good friends. So, why he prefer to scrisfied
(sacrificed) me? I don't talk to him or meet him now. Am I do it right?
Shold (Should) I give up this so-call "friend"? Whenever I
think of this, I can't stop crying. Zita, I really want you give me
some suggestions, thank you.


Elva


 



Dear Elva︰

我懷疑你們發生關係後,他就忽然不再對你有幻想,也即是說,你的身體沒有令他來愛你,反而產生了相反的效果。

他的決定明顯不過,你們以後只能是普通朋友。

如果你不介意與他一世普通下去,你就再見他吧!

他說過那些與女朋友不合拍的事,大概全部是真。只是,他討厭了女朋友,又不等於他愛上了你。

深雪覆

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