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Hi Zita,
I'm very confused now. I've
worked with a senior in my department for around 1 month. People say
that he's a harsh man at work, & I 'm quite afraid of him when we've
just start working together. But it turned out that he treated me quite
nice.
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After that 1 month, I realise
that he approaches me every time he sees me in office. In fact it's
so obvious that I realise some colleagues starts gossiping......
I heard him chatting with his girlfriend during our work together, though
not sure if they're still together. I admit I like him, & it's hard
to stop thinking of someone who keeps on showing concern for u……but
I don't want to be involved in a triangle love (although it may not
be?)…...but I don't know how to treat the relationship…...
Can u give me some advice? Thanks!
Phoebe
Dear Phoebe︰
你不想被捲入苦戀的話，最佳辦法就是，當他要與你開始時，你就決絕地說︰「我不做第三者的！如果你是認真，請你先解決你與她的問題！」
這樣做，為自己加添了原則，也保障了自己的地位。
如果他沒有為你做足解決方案，這個男人就自私自利，兼且貪心，你不要也罷。
記著，做人要有原則。
深雪覆
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