不想做第三者 – 覆Phoebe

Hi Zita,

I'm very confused now. I've
worked with a senior in my department for around 1 month. People say
that he's a harsh man at work, & I 'm quite afraid of him when we've
just start working together. But it turned out that he treated me quite
nice.

After that 1 month, I realise
that he approaches me every time he sees me in office. In fact it's
so obvious that I realise some colleagues starts gossiping......

I heard him chatting with his girlfriend during our work together, though
not sure if they're still together. I admit I like him, & it's hard
to stop thinking of someone who keeps on showing concern for u……but
I don't want to be involved in a triangle love (although it may not
be?)…...but I don't know how to treat the relationship…...

Can u give me some advice? Thanks!


Phoebe


 



Dear Phoebe︰

你不想被捲入苦戀的話,最佳辦法就是,當他要與你開始時,你就決絕地說︰「我不做第三者的!如果你是認真,請你先解決你與她的問題!」

這樣做,為自己加添了原則,也保障了自己的地位。

如果他沒有為你做足解決方案,這個男人就自私自利,兼且貪心,你不要也罷。

記著,做人要有原則。

深雪覆

advertisement
Something is wrong.
Instagram token error.
Load More