Recently, I got a very complicated
problem regarding the relationship that I am having with 3 guys.
The first one is my boyfriend
in which I have been with him for already 4 years. He's very nice to
me but however, I really don't love him as much as I do as beforehand.
However, I dare not to tell him this truth coz it will be too hurt.
The second one is a guy that I know on the net in last year in which
he's living in Canada now. We haven't met before until this May, he
has come all the way from Canada just to meet me. I can feel his love
so much from the beginning till now and it's been a sweet time with
him since then. However, there are also some of pressures as I find
that he will be easily moved just by my joke and words sometime.
The third one is a guy that
I know when I was in the previous company. He's been very caring to
me when I first know him. Whenever I was down, he will come to comfort
me. Actually, I haven't told him that I do have boyfriend at that time.
Then, after around half year, I was told that he also got a girlfriend
in UK in which they've been together for over 10 years. I was really
shocked about this as I had asked him if he did have any gf before and
the answer is no. Then, we started stop contacting each other until
I had left the company, we have not heard from each other.
And from his friends, I knew that he already sensed that I am fond of
him and maybe due to this, he kept away from me then. I can still hear
his news from his friends since then. I am not sure if I still love
this guy or not though I know that he will love his gf only now.
I guess it's really a big joke
that even though I care the third guy the most now, it's seems impossible
to be together now and also, it's been very unfair the first and second
guy also. Can you please give me some pieces of advise in return? Thanks!