男友與醫生 – 覆Edith

Dear Zita,

I've got a boyfriend, who is older than me for
11 years. I've better education background than him, and it seems that
I've a better career prospect than him. But he loves me so much, and
I'm really happy when I'm with him. He cares me, loves me, and even
spoils me. We've been together for nearly 1 year, and we've never been
quarrelled (quarreled) before.

And now, a doctor seems
'interested' in me. He asks me out for several times, and called me
in the middle of the night. I don't know if that doctor has girlfriend
or not (but I guess he does), and he doesn't know I've got a boyfriend.
My friend said I should give myself a chance. She said I should go out
with that doctor and see if we're going to work out. But how can I tell
my boyfriend that I want to have dinner with that doctor? What should
I tell him? It seems not loyal to my boyfriend. But I do want to know
that doctor better......

Don't you think I'm a bad girlfriend?
What do you think I should do?

Yours,

Edith


Dear
Edith︰

你首先不要把「不忠」這思想放在心,你根本不是不忠,你只是想識多個朋友。

我建議你去與那名醫生約會一下,讓你明白一名有錢有成就的男人是否真比你那男朋友要好。

你對你的男朋友有些少嫌棄之心,今次正是大好機會讓你自己了解清楚,你是否真心介意男朋友的缺點。

如果你不去認識這名醫生,多年後你會想到的是︰「其實我還有另一個機會,只是我錯過了。」

只要,你堅持一點,不迷亂,那麼,你再約會誰也可以。

深雪覆

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