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Dear
Zita,

I am
17. Two years ago, when I was studying abroad, I fell in love with a
guy. At that time, he asked me to be his gf (girlfriend). I didn't accept
it because I thought it would disturb my studies. One year later, I
came back to HK. He and I still e-mail with each other. During my birthday,
he would send me gifts. Sometimes, he would send cards to me.



Last X'mas, he visited HK and
I met him. I found that I still loving him. Should I tell him my own
feeling? Do you think he loves me? Is it possible to be his gf (girlfriend)
even though we are not living in the same place? How can I tell him
in a less direct way? Or is it better to keep it as a secret forever?

Kitten


Dear Kitten︰

直覺上你們是相愛的,只是,就算相愛,也未必可以拍拖。距離是其一,更或許,轉眼間你倆已分別找到另一個。

如果你真想開始,不如就這樣問他︰「你相信長途感情嗎?」從中你就會知道他的各種想法。

你讓他知道你的心意是無可厚非的。他一向對你那麼好,就算他拒絕你,日後也會如一地對你好,放心好了。

深雪覆