Should I change my mind? – 覆Kireine

Dear Zita,

I am 22 and I have never had a boyfriend, even I have approachers and sometimes the one approached me was who I loved. A male friend (just normal friend) told me that I always thought my boyfriend would be my final mate, and so I was afraid to start a love relationship due to the sense of uncertainty. On the other



hand, boys approached me would also stop approaching because of the stress come from my "first & final" mind. He said I should try and don't give myself such a pressure. Try? I don't think this is a game. How can I just "try"? Was he right? Will boys really stop approaching due to my mind? Am I the main problem?

Kireine


Dear Kireine︰

你不用聽別人的推論,你要有你自己的一套,日子才會安樂。

無錯,有很多男人會因為你的執著而不追求你。但無所謂啊!這些男人的目標與你不同,夾硬拍拖也不會夾。

你的目標是一次拍拖便天長地久,因此,你應該等待一個與你有同樣思想的男人出現。他有與你一致的戀愛觀,你們才會走同一條路,才較易幸福。

放心吧,很多男人也想一次即「掂」。男人未必個個都花心。

深雪覆

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