I am 22 and I have never had a boyfriend, even I have approachers and sometimes the one approached me was who I loved. A male friend (just normal friend) told me that I always thought my boyfriend would be my final mate, and so I was afraid to start a love relationship due to the sense of uncertainty. On the other
hand, boys approached me would also stop approaching because of the stress come from my "first & final" mind. He said I should try and don't give myself such a pressure. Try? I don't think this is a game. How can I just "try"? Was he right? Will boys really stop approaching due to my mind? Am I the main problem?