Hi Zita︰

I've been bother by this problem for several months now. I don't know what to do. Sometimes I think I should go see a psychologist.

When I found out my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend is divorced and she's back in HK, I tried to find out what she look

like. I went to her work place and follow her. She's pretty……and this makes me feel very bad.

I've a strong desire to know all her private life. I want to know what she wears, what she like to eat, where she wants to hang out and where she lives. I start to think I want to become friends with her. What's wrong with me? I know I'm not lesbian.

Although I know my boyfriend haven't seen or spoke to her for at least three years. When I asked him about her, he seems to enjoy their times together very much. I don't know if this is jealousy or if this has became something else. I think about her all the time. What should I do? Please help.


Dear Michelle︰