How to read his mind? – 覆i-bo

Dear Zita,

I am in love with a boy for nearly 7 months. We are just friends. Every day he calls me after his work and sometimes we will hang out together. I know most of his friends well. However, it seems that he thinks I am too young for him. I don't think we have GENERATION GAP (he admits so) but we do have "AGE GAP"

as he exmpasizes (emphasis) that he is older than me for 5 years! Am I really too young for him that's why he doesn't want me to be his GF (girlfriend) ?

One day, he told me that he is not in love with anyone now and he told me everything about his ex-girlfriend. I know GIRLS are usually too sensitive and always thinks that boys must have some intensions of doing certain things for the girl. In fact, the boy treats her as a good friend.

Am I right that boys can't wait to woo a girl if they are in love with her? I always told myself he is not interested in me as he never says any "sweet" words to me. Somehow, I would have fantasy as he really treats me as if I were his girlfriend. How to know what's in his mind? How can I know if he really likes me or loves me? He always blames me for not calling him but I don't find it necessary to do so. I don't understand why he treats me not as good as he used to be in front of his friends! Why is that the case?

Moreover, can u give me some ideas about our relationship and these questions reallly (really) make me puzzled. THANK YOU

From

i-Bo



Dear i-Bo

我很明白你的心情,因為,他簡直似是一個男朋友。只是,我又認為,你倆是欠了點火花,以至拍不成拖。

男人大女人五年,其實完美不過。他在心中還有其他理由吧,不只因為這五年而對你卻步。

你說得非常好,男人會對喜歡而又合適的女人採取功勢。如果他遲遲無行動,就只當你是朋友。

頂不住了嗎?以你倆的交情,你大可與他「三口六面」說清楚,不如乾脆問他︰「喂,你對我咁好,又唔追我,我覺得唔開心啊!如果我們不拍拖,不如就見少些啦!」之後,索性半個月不找他,看看進展如何。

問完,看到結果,你就心息了。

深雪覆

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