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Dear Zita,
I met a gentleman in a formal party in Aug last year. He then approached me with daily calls and dates without saying he loved me. Sometimes I called him to show my acceptance of him. However after about 1 1/2 months, he seldomly (seldom) called me even he had once dated me for a
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romantic-liked dinner, and he'd called me at 00:00 mid-night on 1 Jan 01 for a happy new year, but no any other call afterwards.
During Jan, I tried calling him daily for two weeks and dated him to see movie. He said he was happy to see movie with me. I thought I got a hope, but still no call. Recently as his birthday is coming, I dated him for a dinner days before his birthday for a pre-celebration. But he suddenly couldn't come as he was busy (It's real, I believe.)…...but after that, still no call.
I think he should give me a call anyway. Why could he be so? Does he already get a gf (girlfriend), or even had one in the early October? Does he just happy to have one more 'fan' like me? Or does he want to test me anything? Does he love me?
Kireine
Dear Kireine︰
他的情況是,他考慮過與你發展,但當理智回歸之後,他就決定放棄。
他有女朋友又好,甚麼心態都好,眼前事實是,他不會再追求你。
你是第一次遇上此等情況吧!因此你嘖嘖稱奇左思右想了,然而,很多男人也是這樣的,未考慮清楚就開始一段關係,但去到一半便「縮沙」走人。
最緊要的是,他放下你之時,你也要醒目放下他。
深雪覆
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