嫁給患癌男友嗎？- 覆Jenny

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by she.com
February 21, 2001

Dear Zita,

I planed to marry December last year, unfortunately my fiancee（fiance） found he had multiple myloma (one kind of blood cancer) during October 2000. The doctor said that this kind of cancer will have life expectancy for 3 to 5 years.

We postoned all the things and cancelled the banquet. He is on treatment right now and in a good progress. I just doubt should I still get marry with him or not? My mom did not want me to marry him now, but... I cannot decide how to do.

Can you give some advice?

Thanks!

Jenny

Jenny：

我懷疑你已不太愛他。如果你已不愛他，就不要嫁給他，並且，最好分手，以後不來往，免得你看著他死去，枉傷心。

一個愛他的女人，是不會計較他命短抑或命長。

不過，你也大可詢問他的意見，如果他愛你，我猜，他反而不願與你結婚。

對不起，你這麼痛苦，而我卻這樣強硬。

深雪覆

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