Hi Zita,

My ex broke up with me about five months ago. The reasons that we broke up were:

1. He's not ready for serious relationahip (relationship)

2. He thought we're not right for each other

3. His new job is too demanding

I guess the only real reason was 2. What do you think?

And recently I know from him that he's got a new girl friend. But he told me it's not serious. And he seriously telling me that he's not going to have any serious relationship.

I thought we'd be together again some time but now I know it's not going to happen. I miss him, but I'm not sure if he's the right person for me (we had been together for only 5 months before breakup, and we had argues all the time). Anything I could do?

Looking forward to your advice.


Dear P︰