他是否適合我?- 覆P

Hi Zita,

My ex broke up with me about five months ago. The reasons that we broke up were:

1. He's not ready for serious relationahip (relationship)

2. He thought we're not right for each other

3. His new job is too demanding



I guess the only real reason was 2. What do you think?

And recently I know from him that he's got a new girl friend. But he told me it's not serious. And he seriously telling me that he's not going to have any serious relationship.

I thought we'd be together again some time but now I know it's not going to happen. I miss him, but I'm not sure if he's the right person for me (we had been together for only 5 months before breakup, and we had argues all the time). Anything I could do?

Looking forward to your advice.

P




Dear P︰

明顯,你與他也不認為大家適合對方,你也承認大家吵罵太多,對嗎?你之所以心有不甘,只因為你心中未放得下他,因此你不認為大家要去到分開這地步。

你的ex先知先覺,因此他比你快死心。你後知後覺,心未死,仍然對這份情有盼望。就此而已。

他告訴你他未ready與其他人長久發展,你聽完便算了,很多情況是,他一轉身,找到一個非常合適的女孩,就雙宿雙棲了。

你要做的是面對現實,承認你與他是不合襯的一對。他承認了,只差你未肯認。


深雪覆

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