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Dear Zita: I'm 18 years old and currently dating my third boyfriend. In fact, I've loved him for five years already but started the relationship with him six months ago. I never had sexual relationships with my ex-boyfriends, but I have started |
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to have sex with my current boyfriend, two months after we've started the relationship. I clearly know what I'm doing, and I understand the importance of virginity to girls. I'm willing to have sex for the first time with him because I'm so in love with him. However, my close friends and family are very traditional, and they all told me that they cannot accept premarital sex. Their ways of thinking has increased the sense of guilt in me. I enjoy having sex with him, because I know that it is a way of expressing love, but at the same time, people around me convince me that I'm doing something wrong. (I did not let anyone about our sexual relationship) What's your opinion on this? Thanks a lot!
Winki Dear Winki︰
與別人發生性關係是一件不用與家人、朋友分享的事。你無必要告訴其他人你的私密經歷。 人生在世，應為快樂而行，你與男友既然相愛，你的思想也成熟，只要做足避孕措施，實在沒有罪疚感可言。
如果你的家人，朋友不贊成女人有婚前性行為，你也扮作無性行為就好了。無謂爭吵辯論，少惹麻煩，而自己則繼續開心。 |
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