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Dear Zita,

I just broke up with my bf (boyfriend) a month ago. We had the third party involved who is his ex gf (girlfriend). He still wants to keep the relationship with me but I decided to
broke (break) up with him cos (because) I can't stand with this type of situation.

We still talk or see each other once


for 2 weeks and I knew he's going very well with his gf (girlfriend). But I found myself still loves him a lot and I want to let him know I still waiting for him to come back.

Besides that, I will live in an apartment alone next month and I remembered he told me that he will come to visit me once or twice a week after I moved. Please tell me what shall I do?

feli-cat


Dear feli-cat︰

一天你未死心,一天你也只會傷害自己。可以預見的是,之後他間中來看你,又自然會與你發生關係,當中有多少痛楚,你該可以猜得到。然而我叫你與他以後不相見,你又一定做不來,到最後,受苦的是你,受益的是他。

可以做是,叫自己快點死心,一天心不死,你只會痛苦下去。一個控制不到自己一腳踏兩船的男人,如何能給你幸福?這種愛太少了。

深雪覆