Net Love – 覆Tristine

Hi Zita,

I know a boy in a internet game. And one day he told me that he want to be close (get closer) to me as much as he can. So we decided to begin this relationship. Although both of us don't have enough confidence. We decided that we may meet each other in 2 years, if at that time, I still like him,

then he will ask me be his gf (girlfriend). And we said, don't promise each other anything. Because I study in Europe alone, and he study in USA now. We all think time may change everything.

But he always forget that he said he would phone me. Although I know he is busy, final exams are coming.But I can't understand, if you like someone, you will concern of her for sure, if concern her, how can you forget what you said? Friends told me that boys always forget those small case, but I can't understand it. I take what I said very seriously.

And yestoday (yesterday), I suddenly feel very lonely and upset. So I phoned him, told him what I felt, hope can talk with him for a while. He was translating something for some very common friends of him. But he refused talking with me, just said he would phone me this weekend. I am confused. I don't know if he really likes me. Whether what he said at beginning is just a passion?

Grateful if you can analyze my situation.

Thank you so much!

All the best

Tristine



Dear Tristine︰

你遇到的問題是很一般性的。

男人不同女人,男人會在熱烈地愛著一個女人之後冷卻下來。當女人在愛情中勇往直前之時,男人在中途會自我反省,「究竟,這個女人是否我應該愛的呢?」

他不致電給你,又晦晦氣氣,正代表他處於此冷靜階段。

有經驗的女孩子會裝作若無其事,不致電給他,留待他致電給自己,這樣,他便不會再晦氣了。

這是我一直相信的「電話守則」。讓他致電,便大家好過。

女人的愛情是自動提升的,但男人,升到一個水平便停止下來。你最好保持開朗,在他每次致電時也開開心心,他便認為你會是一名極適合他的女人,而之後,他會樂意常常致電給你。

深雪覆

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