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           Hi dearestZita,
 
  I was so confused. I reallyneed your help.
           I was in relationship with my ex for 5 years long. But I was not loyalto him and was in relationship with another guy secretly. Finally, he
 discovered it, and then I broke up with him and
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         | hang around with the new guynaturally. But he didn't want to break up with me. He kept begging and
 begging me for staying together, but I rejected again and again.
 
 I broke with the new guy last month and ex is still keeping begging.
 I tried staying with him for a week, but I found that I didn't love
 him much as 5 years ago. I treated him very bad when I was with him.
 When he kissed me, I didn't rejected, but when he wanted to have sex
 with me, I couldn't help refusing, just didn't know why.
           But hoestly (honestly), I often thought of him when we had separated.When I had ups and downs, I thought of him first. When he said one of
 his colleague wanted to be his girlfriend, I was mad. It seems that
 I still miss him, do I? Anyway, we have been together for 5 years, it's
 very difficult to forget him. I am 26 already, I am very afraid I can't
 have another boyfriend if I miss him.
           I am a very contradicted person, do you think so? Thank you so muchfor reading my long email.
           Yours, Macy
 
 
 
 
  Dear Macy︰ 看來你已不太愛他,不肯發生關係,就是一個訊號。 你怕你再無其他男朋友,那麼,就嘗試與他一起吧,不過,可能你需要再次一腳踏兩船。
          始終,你也是不滿意他。夾硬與他一起,只是委屈你。
                    深雪覆
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